Make her feel sexy! (Short story on how I almost fucked it all up)
I felt I HAD to make this post to warn those guys who like myself aren't the most sexually experienced out there.
Last weekend I had a girl stay over at my place and she ended up staying the night. I care about this girl a lot and we have been sort of seeing each other for a while. Now we have had drunken sex before but it wasn't much. If we were going to have sex again, this would be our first time having sober sex together. As it turns out we did.
Things were actually going pretty well. I was going for quite a while. Licked her out. We tried it on a chair but we were both pretty tired and went back to the bed. Here she asked me if I've ever given a girl an orgasm before. I responded with something like 'Has anyone?'. A pretty neutral response since I doubt I have given a girl an orgasm, though I have had sex a couple of times before. There was no point in lying. So she grabs my hand and pulls me onto the bed.
So I basically finger her and she has an orgasm. I was pretty tired. My head was in it too much. I was basically falling to sleep. She then asks me 'Is that it?'. At this point I realize though I had done everything for her needs, she felt so insecure at the fact I hadn't orgasmed. I told her it's 100% my fault, and that it's only because I was trying so hard not to all night that I just couldn't. She felt terrible. She said we should just be friends from now, and that tomorrow it would be awkward I felt terrible. I barely slept that night.
As it happened I had a plan. And so when morning came and we started to wake up I asked how she felt. I didn't feel awkward but she did. She still said she didn't look at me in the same way and we would probably be better as friends. I felt terrible. But I began to touch her. Soon enough she touched me back and we are both naked again. We have sex, I orgasm and long story short, things are way better than before. Even had sex again the next day which was much better.